as a teenager, 4:06 really helped me know if this group of girls were flirting with me or just being...really energetic friends.
Genuinely, I think the best advice anyone can get is "know what you're looking for, and what you want people to find you for." You shouldn't be changing for a partner, nor should you try to change your partner. On top of that, you should be upfront about the kind of person you are, and the kind of relationship you want. If any of that isn't clear, chances are it's gonna be a bumpy road.
It's so nice seeing Ross so happy!
Note gonna lie, that "balancing each others energies" part is so fucking true, not just for romance but overall. Even some of my best friends are very different from me, but it made the connection just that much better.
I like how this is relationship advice with Giwi and Ross, and for some reason Buff is just suddenly there in the last 2 minutes lol
love to see the lady worm queen and her little imp minion consort
As a [small] tiddy goth gf, i have never been more called out in my life lmao. But its true, goth gfs like silly gamers, its the way of nature. And i love my silly gamer boyfriend! I'm glad you and Ross are so happy too lol
Vday stream! It was about time lol It was a really fun stream jokes aside. You two had some genuine advice I thought was presented wonderfully. Nice to get such a personal stream like these on occasions. Appreciate your commitment to making content now. You've done enough streaming for that much. Lol It's just a big focus for some. Exhausting, but all be it a rewarding time. Glad I get to share in the fun by just being around. Thanks for your time
God I wish I could find someone as direct as Giwi. Literally, some woman out there just needs to pull a Giwi and go "God damnit, are we gonna bang?"
i love these two, they could be like "were quitting forever to get married" tommorow and I'd be like ok yeah!!!! have fun!!!!!!!
Knowing Buff’s stories I got so scared when she joined 😂
Love seeing you guys talk about relationship stuff, it’s so cute 🥹
Props to the editor in scrapping through months and years and decades of streams
What I've done for birthdays that overlap with holidays is that for smaller holidays (Like valentines), we just celebrate it a few days to a week after the birthday. It also means that we can just get the discounted candy and hangout for a while, instead of spending extra money to have everything on valentines day. That usually means you can get extra candy if it's discounted too
4:58 Giwi definitely feels like she would say that
Somehow these two giving such genuine advice feels so surreal
Honesty my trick is, i NEVER approach a conversation like im attempting to flirt and I never assume they are flirting with me. Seriously, if you're at some kind of gathering, whether it be a bar, a club, a friends house, or something interest related like a board game store, if you see someone who catches your eye, first off, if its just "damn they attractive" dont go for it because that is a terrible conversation starter and honestly if i have reaslistic standards, there are lots of attractive people out there, that really shouldn't be enough to grab your interest anyway. If you see someone who for whatever reason, grabs your interest because say, they are interested in something you are too, or maybe they are talking about something that you find interesting even if its not something you yourself have tries to get into. Honestly hobbies and interests are always the best conversation starters in my experience. Other than that, approach the conversation like this is a person i want to learn more about, NOT I want to date them and DEFINITELY not I want to sleep with them. The best relationships start out as friends anyway. Let things develope naturally. The whole idea of a being "friend zoned" such BS. If you are friendzoned its not because you missed your shot, its because she wasnt interested on you from the start. And its NOT a bad thing! You gained a friend, and through that friend you will probably make more friends who you might hit it off with in a more romantic way. Honestly dating culture here in the US is so annoying. People tend to be very rigid about how things should be done. Like there is a bunch of unspoken rules and it makes the whole thing way more akward than it needs to be.
Thank you Ross and Giwi !!!
9:03 OK as someone who has struggled with this trust me, if you even questioning that you didn’t do it out of pity, you would know damn well if you did it out of pity. thank you for coming to my TEDTalk.
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