@desertrose111
Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband, sometimes you have to show the courage of leaving people you care about in order to find people who care about you.
@Avarosa
It's okay to mourn the fact that they were not the one, but don't mourn them AS IF they were the one. ❤
@karenwoodall2991
I don't deserve to have to spend the rest of my life, trying to convince a man that it's a good thing for him to be with me. If he can't see that for himself, then he's not the one for me.
@Consciouslivingbyamara
1. Admiration 2. Mutual Attraction 3. Commitment 4. Compatibility
@2tzus
I ended a 28-year marriage in my mid 40s; the hardest thing I've ever done. From the outside it was very 'white picket fence' so it threw a real wrench in every aspect of our world, but I knew I couldn't do another 28 years of the same thing. The disentanglement process with friends and family is overwhelming and takes a very long time, but fast forward 14 years, I'm married to a wonderful man and I'm glad I had the courage to make the changes I needed for me. My ex-husband, however, is still single and still sees himself as the victim. All I can do is save myself.
@lorendah0603
“How many times does something not have to work, for me to decide it’s not going to work.” Yes
@priyankadeyray243
Matthew Hussey doesn't know how grateful we are for his work
@pirihirarakete5747
Letting go is easier than holding onto hope for something that will never eventuate. Letting go is hard, holding on is harder 😢
@vidalismi9658
Love when two men have healthy conversations
@lorimcallister1
I lit the fuse after 25 years of marriage 6 kids and a business. Its very very tough. He could not meet my 4 basic needs and never has, I had to start to take care of myself, mentally, physically, and spiritually because I could not handle the thought of another 25 years of the same. "It would take a brain transplant", Yes this is the truth in my situation. Sometimes the programmed behaviors are not something that someone can actually overcome or change. I thought for years if i gave him more time, that it would change. I am angry with myself now for waiting so long. Being single at 50 feels better than continuing something that felt miserable almost daily. Learning to love myself and make good choices for myself each day.
@danajoseph868
This guy makes so much sense. Rather than make a list of boxes to check off, think about how the person makes you feel daily!!! What women mostly look for is security...that's a feeling that when you know, you KNOW!
@charnicholson8987
"Is there anything you need from me or what can I do to support you today... how can I make you feel more loved and more seen"....... this is a true man. I truly truly love this and I wish most men would think this way. I had to write this down so I never forget.... very uplifting and encouraging.
@marshareed1438
I was married for 30yrs. For 30 yrs I couldn’t have my man’s body… He was at peace in our marriage bcz he had me completely under his emotional control! He broke me down within 2 yrs. I had a nervous breakdown. I was on & off antidepressants. I wasn’t strong enough to file for divorce … I decided to turn the tables on him. He was okay with him causing me to suffer but he wasn’t okay with him suffering …He taught me how to treat him by how he treated me. It worked! Been single for 3 yrs & I’m loving it!
@yq2280
Because we hoped that one day they will change but they won’t !
@DominionAnako-bb7ry
Of course! Going through a breakup can be a challenging and emotional time. It's important to give yourself space to heal and process your feelings. Take time to reflect on the relationship and what you've learned from it. Surround yourself with positive influences and engage in activities that bring you joy. Remember, this is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. You're capable of rebuilding and finding happiness again. Stay strong! 💪❤️
@sisterchick9044
Saw this video title on a day when I was crying about a fresh break up, just turned 62, still loved the guy, I was the one who lit the fuse, had previously been dumped after 34 years of marriage and this was the first new relationship after that. I kept thinking, am I crazy? What have I done? I needed this wisdom today. He didn’t love himself and I didn’t love myself and together it was a roller coaster ride of good highs and bad lows. He had destructive additions as well. Thank you for some clarity in this difficult time. I feel better about my decision and have a new direction to go forward. Thx!
@susanchrest3950
I ended my 34 year marriage after 10 years of constant on again off again infidelity on my spouse's part. I tried, I really did, but I was the only one in therapy, trying to make it work. Finally, my self respect and peace meant more. Blowing up my life is very accurate, as that is exactly how it feels. I'm 10 months into a separation and ultimately a divorce will happen. I regret not throwing the grenade 10 years ago. Rebuilding is so difficult at any stage in time. Thank you for this helpful video.
@highticketclosers
Healthy relationships also need trust , respect , good communication and shared goals.
@NotTheSameAsIWas
Holy moly. I have been feeling like I blew up my life and 24 year relationship over nothing because Ive asked for more (different) love and intimacy without reciprocation for years and I couldn’t take it anymore. I have been panicking for a few months now, questioning my decisions, feeling like a failure. I know in my heart this is a necessary ending and I will come out the other side more of the person i want to be but it is so, so, so difficult. Most of the time i can barely breathe.
@lewishowes